About "The Charmed Ones"
I never watched the show as a kid. I actually just binged it with my cousin over the past couple months.
As a Harry Potter loyalist and strict Big 3 kid--Cartoon Network, Nickelodeon and Disney Channel--I never really got the opportunity to understand the hype about it.
It was one of those shows the girls fought the Pink Ranger war over.
Now I know why I didn't like it. About magic: it does come from pain like they say on the show Magicians.
Here's a screenshot detailing what really made me initially in this life mistrust all who cared for me. If you knew me as a child, this makes sense.
I get the sense that this was performed in various ways. Others were beaten while being told they were loved.
Be careful who you're dealing with indeed for you know not what they remember for themselves (I'd wager more often than not though relying on children's memories to be faulty is the majority of the problem).
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